Jackie says: “As long as young men continue to find me attractive, I’ll be game. It’s beyond flattering to be someone’s first because you automatically become the woman they never forget.
“How many women can say that about men they’ve been with?
“And what older woman isn’t attracted to younger men? They look better, have better bodies and they don’t run out of energy after a couple of hours.
“Being inexperienced is the icing on the cake. They’re eager to learn how to do it properly.”
Jackie finds her lovers on websites for “cougars” — the term for older women who like young men — and at raunchy London clubs.
She first found virgins satisfied her needs after sleeping with a 21-year-old chef called Craig, who trembled with fear during their first encounter.
Jackie says: “I joined a cougar dating site and said I was an older woman with a big appetite for life and only interested in men aged between 18 and 28.
“Within a day I had about 60 replies and another 60 the day after. I couldn’t believe how many young men out there were eager to be with me.
“Thanks to that site I met Craig. At 21, he had never had a girlfriend and was a virgin. I thought he was joking and laughed until I realised he was serious.
“He’d joined the site to lose his virginity and was surprised when I told him it wasn’t a problem.
“We met in a hotel and he went all-out with flowers, chocolates and champagne. He was so nervous he was actually shaking — and was relieved when I took control and told him what to do.
“Craig followed my instructions so well that we ended up spending the whole night together.
“Afterwards, we stayed in touch and a few weeks later he got a girlfriend. I remember feeling smug that being with me had given him the confidence to do that.”
Jackie admits her sex life was not always so unconventional. She married her childhood sweetheart Chris at 18, when they were both virgins.
Jackie says: “We had no idea what we were doing and were both nervous, so it was really awkward.
“Over time, we got more experienced and things did get better. Like everything else, practice makes perfect.”
But after 13 years and two kids, the marriage was in trouble.
Jackie says: “I started working after being a stay-at-home mum.
“While I made new friends and started going out to clubs and bars, Chris was happy having the odd drink in the pub with friends.
“I’d get chatted up by fit-looking young men then come home to my husband slumped in front of the TV like an old man.
“Over time, I started feeling less and less attracted to him. Our sex life suffered to the point where we stopped having any. That left us living together as friends. I was only 30 and that just wasn’t the life I wanted.
“We sat down and talked it through — and Chris admitted that he felt the same.”
The pair separated and just two months later Jackie started seeing a co-worker called Anthony. He was 21, ten years her junior.
She says: “I’d had my eye on him for a long time but I had no idea that he had been eyeing me as well.
“Being with him was completely different to being with my husband. He wasn’t very experienced but he was more than happy for me to tell him what to do and what not to do.
“Not only was there a physical attraction, he was fun.”
They moved in together and went on to have three children.
But after nine years, Jackie started to feel restless again. She says: “Once Anthony hit 30, he suddenly stopped wanting to go out and said he preferred staying at home.
“Even when he did go out, he’d get tired after just a few hours — while I’d still be raring to go.
“Finally it hit me. He’d become too old for me. If we stayed together, I’d be stuck in a rut.
“He was upset when I told him. He couldn’t understand why I would think he was too old when there was still a ten-year age difference.
“It was a question of attitude. Even though I was 40, I felt like I was 20 — and I wanted to be with men that age.
“He finally accepted the situation and agreed to move out.”
Since sleeping with Craig, Jackie has bedded countless other virgins.
She says: “Most of the men I met after him turned out to be in the same boat. They’d be nervous as soon as things moved into the bedroom.
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